Episode 8: The Focusing Illusion: Is One Goal Defining Your Happiness?
What if lasting happiness isnât found in one big goal, but in how you choose to focus on your everyday life?
In this episode of Redefining Happiness, we explore the Focusing Illusion, a concept from Dr. Daniel Kahneman and Dr. David Schkade that shows how our minds exaggerate the importance of whatever weâre currently thinking about. That hyperfocus on one goal, one milestone, one area of stress? It might be quietly distorting how happy you feel, and how satisfied you believe you are.
Youâll learn how this mental habit can cause us to delay happiness, misjudge our well-being, and overlook the smaller, sustaining moments that actually shape our emotional lives. Weâll also look at why daily life, not milestone moments, is where lasting well-being is built.
This episode is a reminder that no single achievement will ever carry the full weight of your happiness. But where you place your attention each day just might.
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This Weekâs Happiness Challenge: Refocusing the Goal
Take a few quiet minutes to reflect on where your attention is going.
Are you over-investing in one big goal at the expense of the present?
Use the free journaling worksheet in the Podcast Resources Hub to help you gently shift your focus and reconnect with what truly brings you joy, peace, and fulfillment, right now. Â
Resources Mentioned:
- [Free Download] Refocusing the Goal Expanded Journaling Worksheet â available now inside the Podcast Resources Hub
- Daniel Kahnemanâs research the Focusing Illusion
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